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Thursday, 19 April 2012

The girl in the green dress (except it's not, it's a shalwar khameez)

In December last year I wrote about "the girl in the green dress". I'd seen her picture that day in the New York Times and like everyone else, I was horrified. I'm not saying that lightly like "jeez I was horrified by the price of my electricity bill." I mean shocked, stunned, loss of breath, horrified. Which is exactly why photographer Massoud Hossaini has just won a pulitzer prize for his work.


An article I read today answered all of the questions I had at the time. I wonder what her name is? How old is she? I thought at the time she looked about the same age as the first little traveler. She is. Indiscriminate thoughts ran through my mind. Was it her best dress? It was.


"Tarana herself has scars on her legs and arms and walks with a limp. She no longer attends school because her legs hurt, she says, adding: “I hope I can get well soon and go back to school.”

Learning more about Tarana's life has provided insight, but the words have just made the picture more distressing. Tarana's father is unemployed, her family of seven live in what is described as a two roomed ramshackled house, a house which leads to an alley full of young men openly injecting herion.


I often wonder about our soldiers, how do they cope when they return home? When I talk about my geographical schizophrenia it all seems so middle class, so very first world. How does a soldier return to his family and not stop thinking about the Taranas of this world? The confusion that must come from being so happy to be going home, but knowing what you're leaving behind. 

If Massoud Hossaini hadn't won the Pulitzer prize, I imagine Tarana's name would remain a mystery.  I imagine her family would have been of little interest, for they are one of many families in the same situation. Understandably Tarana sounds a little confused by the attention:

That her picture has been featured on newspaper front pages around the world means little to her, she says, with a small shrug and a fleeting smile.

There's no way Tarana could comprehend how many people opened a newspaper, or clicked on a website and were shocked by her picture. Which is probably a good thing, because if she could she'd possibly wonder why she continues to live the way she does.


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Television was in its infancy during the Korean war but by the time Vietnam rolled along it was right there, in our homes.  For the first time the world was presented with haunting images on a daily basis. Who could ever forget "The girl in the picture"? Kim Phuc was nine when Nick Ut took this photo. The second little traveler is nine. Pictures like this were arguably so confronting that people began to ask more questions. Sometimes you can hear the story but it's not until you see the picture that you can really comprehend the horror.

Did I mention the second little traveler is nine?




Last week I read Sally Sara's "farewell to Kabul". It is such a beautiful piece of writing. Not only do you get a honest portrayal of life as a foreign correspondent but there are heart wrenching moments like this;

"But I have seen things here too that I wish I hadn't. Minutes I wish I could scratch away. Not so much for me, but for those whose lives have fractured in front of me. 

I still see one boy's face. His name was Abdul. He was an 11-year-old, who had been injured in a blast in Kandahar. He was brought into the military hospital with half his face blown away. The bandages around his head were covered in dirt, gravel, blood and vomit. He screamed and cried, pleading for the pain to stop. Adbul's face was so badly injured, I spent most of the time filming his feet. His toes flexed with the waves of agony. 

Abdul's suffering was not my fault but, as an adult, it was impossible not to feel responsible. I remember standing there thinking how utterly wrong it was that, live or die, this child would think this was what life was. It was just wrong.

And to think it was intentional. Someone had sat in a dusty compound somewhere, patiently lacing a homemade bomb with the nails and ball bearings that tore through this boy. A child should never know that life could be like that. The next day Abdul's dead body was carried out of the hospital, wrapped in a white sheet and cradled in the arms of his father."

Two days after this piece was aired there was yet another suicide bombing. This picture was in the New York Times.


The photo was taken by Massoud Hossaini, you can read about how he came to take the shot here. My first reaction when I saw this photo was pure horror. There are too many children, too many little hands and feet.  

I keep thinking about the girl in the green, wondering if that was her favourite outfit. Was it new? Who was she going to meet at the festival she was on her way to? I wonder about the people surrounding her. How many family members did she lose? Who was looking after her? Who was holding her hand? 

In 2011, this has to be our "the girl in the picture". 

Does she have the same impact? 


15 comments:

  1. I don't know if she has the same impact anymore. Too many images, too many stories of horror. I can flick the next button now and see more in other countries around the world. But I still wish it wasn't so.

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  2. I literally read this post as I sit in a taxi, dressed up heading to downtown Calgary for a Christmas party. 2 oft children are at hockey practise and the other 2 are safe at home. Thank you for reminding me in this exact moment how blessed and fortunate we are.
    Loranne

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  3. Kirsty- thanks so much for this post and the other you wrote last week about Afghanistan too. I hadn't caught Sally's 'farewell' either, so was an absolute 'ditto' moment to read that just now. 
    I've just waddled out of Kabul myself, 7mths pregnant with a partner threatening to come and get me if I didn't sack myself and come home. Home being Albania at the moment, it's a bit like swapping one roasting pan for another, but still, at least here in Tirana, I can WALK. Yes, WALK (sans headscarf!)- as Sally says: an everyday blessing that we take for granted. Walking in Tirana is not without its excitement either- man hole covers not being seen as such a necessity here. I'm no stranger to seeing whole dogs suddenly disappear...and the occasional colleague.
    I've been in and out of Afghanistan for the past almost 3 years. As a development worker (or perpetual wandered), I've now lived and worked in 18 countries, but I tell you, Kabul. is. it. The most exotic, maddening, crazy (try looking checking a list of office supplies needed by the Attorney General's Office only to come across a listing for 5 RPGs [rocket-propelled grenade launchers: now that's tough justice for you!]), completely addictive place I've ever been. 
    My boss this year, when I broke the news that I was pregnant and would probably have to go home at some stage (body armour not yet made for Vesuvian bellies!), told me, 'Remember Steph- you choose when to come to Afghanistan, but Afghanistan chooses when to let you go.' And it's true.
    There are so many needs and so much corruption that you wonder sometimes if the two sides cancel each other out. I do have some good links to people who are doing incredible work there, send me an email, and I'll send you contact details. Take care. S

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  4. Kirsty, I read this hours ago and have thought about it since. Just shared it on my facebook wall.

    Hate how we watch "the news" but it is a filtered, vanilla version of the news. Real news is happening every second of every day.

    This is the best mummyblogging post I have ever read. XX

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  5. I agree, it's bloody horrible but we see it so often now online, on the evening news, that it's almost like it becomes the norm to see it. How awful is that? That seeing the horror of death is the norm?
    That these images don't haunt us ALL and move us ALL to do something is a tragedy.

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  6. I've seen 'the girl in the photo' interviewed, i think she's a lawyer, a huge success story none the less.  We don't know how lucky we are in Australia.  My husband's interpreter in Afghanistan has a 13 year old wife (his 3rd, he sold his baby daughter to 'buy' this wife) who now has twin girls.  Having a daugher the same age as this girl/ mother as well as 10 year old twins, it makes my husband's blood boil.  It's their culture but what a clash to ours.  I think of my lucky son, who will not be raped by uncles & cherish our safe life.  I could tell you some stories about Sally Sara!!  Hmmm, raised eye brow if you're keen. 
    Thank you for bringing meaning to the end of year chaos.  Love Posie

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  7. Hi Posie, Do you get to have your husband home for Christmas? I hope so. I love Sally Sara, I met Sal many years ago and  I think she is one of Australia's best journalist. Actually - I think she is the best, but I may be a little biased.  Many years ago when Sal was a rural repeater on the country hour, my father mentioned the "new girl" on the radio and said "we won't get to keep her here for too long - she's too good, they'll snap her up in a heartbeat". 

    I am in awe of the work that she does. Particularly her time in Delhi followed but by the coverage of the Pakistan floods. Her book "Gogo Mama" is a fantastic read and I'm really looking forward to reading the next one. I've had my fingers and toes crossed over the past year while I've watched Sal, like anyone does who knows someone in Afghanistan. I'm really looking forward to seeing her back in Australia and back covering rural issues. On a personal note, I have my own Sal stories - she is quite possibly the funniest Facebook status updater on the planet but on a more serious note, you couldn't ask for a better mate and a more loyal friend. But like I said, I'm a little biased. 

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  8. Steph, your reply has blown me away - I've sent you an email. Thank you so much for sharing. xxx

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  9. I think you're right - we keep seeing more and more. BUT, as a mother, the stories about the children get me every time. Sal's mention of the 11 year old boy was almost impossible to read and the picture of the baby who is upside down - too much to bear. Having written all of this though, I still know I'll get in to some ridiculous conversation about fake tan or the need to pluck my eyebrows within the next 48 hours.

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  10. Thank you for the reminder. We really are so overwhelmed with too many photos of too many horrors. Eden is right, we're numb. Your post was a very well written reminder to stop and smell the roses, both the beautiful ones and the horrifying ones. It's all so real.

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  11. Very meaningful post as usual. It's hard Kirsty. You see horror like that happening and you think, "there's got to be something we can do". It's not normal that we let our own starve and die and be blown up. But what do you do??? What can you do? Go to afghanistan and save a couple of kids? Take them home? Go to Africa and bring along some food? Donate all you have? You could. And then there are all the other issues of giving a man a fish and only feeding him for a day. I don't know the answer. I don't think though that turning a blind eye is the solution. If you do come up with something, please let me know. Perhaps if enough of us get together, we could do something.

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  12. He loss of human life does get to me when I see hints like this but I watch so little news nowadays, I forget it's all happening for some everyday. Their norm and my norm - poles apart.

    I read this whilst feeding my 9 month old. Seeing the dead baby upside down broke my heart and set me crying. How could it not as I held my own precious child in my arms.

    It's all so wrong. It's all so sad. But I also feel so helpless.

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  13. I am stopping by to tell you I love that i have found your blog! I am looking forward to reading more, Belinda

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  14. Such a thought provoking post. Thank You for sharing and making us think.

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