- I'm often asked if The Little Travellers are confused about where they're from. It's a popular question, particularly when being interviewed about the blog and our expat life. "Is it confusing for them? What do they think they are?"As a parent it's very hard not too sound defensive when answering "What do they think they are?"The Little Travellers were all born in different countries and have a variance of vague to incredibly strong ties to all of their previous "homes". Each has a favourite house, a fondly remembered best friend, favourite park, local pool and ice-cream shop. They all carry Australian passports (some of them are on their second edition) one of them has 2 passports - we call him our little Canadian. But he's not. He's Australian.They're all Australian. And there's never been any confusion on the issue.
"How many sleeps until we go 'home' to see Granny"
"Are we are going to go 'home' for Christmas?"
"If we have a bath and brush our teeth really quickly is there time to watch McLeods Daughters/Masterchef before bedtime?"
"I need new ugg boots - maybe Granny could get them from 'home'"
"Can I take 'Dougald the Garbage Dump Bear' to school to read to the class. I have to take a book from my country"
"Can I buy 20 koala key rings for the class? Everyone always asks what a koala looks like"
"Toot toot chugga chugga big red car"I often wonder if The Little Travellers think about their "Australianess" more than the average Australian kid. When you attend an International School "Where are you from" is a regular question. Lunch rooms and playground walls are adorned with murals of maps and international settings. I listen to them talk about Australia to friends in a way that would have you believe that they had personally been appointed by the Australian government to act as mini ambassadors. They love to brag about how they've sat on the Opera House steps, seen the socceroos play a game and how last time at Granny's the kangaroos jumped straight through the backyard. "Seriously! They did!"
Henry hotdog has three Australians in his class and one across the hallway, each of their lockers currently has a "mini me" in national dress with their name on it. Have you ever tried to do national dress as an Australian? We did an Australian shirt with shorts but the surf life saver and the akubra with moleskins were the definite winners.
There are 74 flags in the school cafeteria acknowledging the 74 nationalities that are represented at the school and I'm sure that each child in that cafeteria could proudly point you in the direction of their own. I watched them playing a game the other day, it was tag with a twist, you could untag yourself by answering a question "how do you say hello in Spanish" someone would ask or "how do you say the number 7 in Arabic". I could see the Third Little Traveller's mind working overtime on what question he could ask from home "how many eggs do you need to make a pavlova" he giggled.
If you were to ask me what I thought they were, the answer would be lucky.
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What a great post - I read your blog and I am quite envious of the life that your children get to lead - learning so many different cultures and traditions and yet holding on to their own. Since moving here I never considered life outside of Australia (actually after moving here I told A that when we buy a house it better be the right one because the next move for me is out the house in a wooden box) - so in all likelihood I am not cut out to be a travellers wife, so I will continue to live vicariously through you and your family and dream of what may have been had I had the courage to try something different !!!
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What a coincidence! I just blogged about that today. But my geeky children are a bit more confused than yours and have quantified their belonging in terms of percentages. I know they may not feel it so much now, but in future, they too will think they are lucky, right?
ReplyDeleteYour kids are totally lucky, as are you xx
ReplyDeleteI love this post. Having only moved states, I've just realised how the little ones take it on board. Jack (4) has been really sad this week. Bursting into tears, won't give me reasons why but I keep telling him it's OK to miss your friends. Gah, why didn't I realise it would hurt them too?
ReplyDeleteI admire yours and your children's resilience K. I love what you do for them. x
A fellow traveller, but can't say I have four kids, with different 'nationalities'. Last year we moved 25 times in 6 months. It was part of the adventure. We sold our house, sent our stuff to storage, started with two suitcases each (ended up with one carry on bag each) and adventured. I have to confess by unpack no 25, I was done! Season was over, I want a house, with all the stuff that comes with middle-class suburbia.
ReplyDeleteWe've just opted out of middle-class suburbia - again. This time to a fishing village by the coast. Commuting our daughter to school - for the time being.
My answer would be the same - I think we're lucky!
Great post. I suppose you may be right that they are more aware of their "Australianess" than most "back home."
ReplyDeleteNot quite the same as my daughter who moved to Florida 11 years ago still responding that she is a NYer. :-)
Hope you like our version of UN Day at school - my husband is Scottish and I am Australian and we are living in Atlanta. My kids proudly say they are half Australian and half Scottish although born in Vienna and lived in 5 different countries - none of them Australia or Scotland. We try very hard to keep them connected to both counties through cousins and friends and visits and emails, etc. I used to worry more - now I just think "what will be, will be" and hope it all works out in the end :) The older they get, the more they are becoming their own people and all these experiences are part of them. It will be interesting to see how they answer that question as adults!
ReplyDeleteIt's always hard not to bristle when asked "What do you think you are?" whether it's directed at you or your children. Maybe I'm a naive, head-in-the-clouds, optimist, but I always feel, "Why is it so important to pigeon-hole me? If it doesn't matter to me, why should it matter to you?"
ReplyDeleteI guess people ask out of curiosity and don't mean to be rude.
Love your posts though, Kirsty - so uplifting :-)
World citizens--growing up ready for how small the world will be when they're adults--it's so incredibly smaller than it was 30 years ago
ReplyDeleteGreat post. I can understand everyone's curiosity about it if they've not experienced expat life or travel with kids.
ReplyDeleteMy dual-nationality Miss 6 is firmly Australian but very proud to be Canadian whenever there are international dress up days or similar at school. If you thought Australian dress up was hard, try Canadian! We finally found a t-shirt with a moose on it, that was the best I could do. Must buy some better national props on my next trip home.
Lucky, indeed! It's astounding how patriotic we all become when we move overseas, but none more than our wee folk. Where you are from is more about our hearts than our passports :)
ReplyDeleteI'm from the US, husband from Germany, kids growing up in Asia....ask my oldest and he says "half Amerian, half German, half Chinese"...I know the math doesn't quite add up, but it works in his head, and makes me giggle.
ReplyDeleteMy youngest is adopted and her answer is the same, except now she says she can't be German b/c she doesn't speak the language so well. So her identity is in the language? Who knows, but they all become their own person and that is fun to watch, isn't it?
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ReplyDeleteWe've been 'gone' six months now and last night I asked Miss 9 if she was missing her friends from 'home'. "Um...I know it's wrong but I don't really think about them any more." I assured her that is completely normal and healthy, but this was a child who 12 weeks ago was sobbing herself to sleep on a regular basis. And my Miss 5 adapted quicker - but for the first moth here she was a little ball of anger!
So, it will get easier. x
25 times in 6 months - sounds amazing. We've had periods of time where we've lived out of a suitcase and I can identify with the yearning for a stable environment. I love that you just sold up and went for it. Where did you go?
ReplyDeleteHeading over for a look now.
ReplyDeleteSuch an interesting post. This sparked a lengthy conversation at our dinner table! I definitely became more patriotic once leaving Australia, but have also adopted a lot of aspects of other cultures I have experienced. Making me both more and less Australian all at once.
ReplyDeleteYes it is quite amazing how we try and keep our children informed of where they come from... my 1 son who is nearly 4 is half Aussie and half Greek born in Canada so we have always made sure we have told him.... we have lived in 3 countries not Australia in the past 3 years, when we moved Nov 2010 we spent 5 months looking for somewhere to live so I decided since we couldnt do school etc we would travel to Australia, Greece, Canada to fill in time. Now we have started school he proudly tells everyone where is is from which is quite cute but he loves each country for the summers he spends there when we can....thanks for the tips for future National Dress Days - maybe the bottom half can be greek with the tights and pompoms on the shoes and a akubra with swining corks on top?
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